considering porn to be cheating in a relationship is actually a red flag and i don't recommend entertaining it

The incorrect idea that porn use constitutes cheating is extremely dangerous. Exaggerations like this permanently destroy marriages that might otherwise improve.Until very recently, western societies set very high standards for what constituted grounds for divorce. Actual male infidelity wasn't even grounds for divorce in the English common law until 1923. Now, even the smallest infractions legitimize an immediate dissolution of the marriage. Porn use equates to adultery. An ill-advised comment

Frank Edoho sef fall my hand. You caught your wife cheating and you were talked back into the marriage? Are you not man enough?You shouldn’t even leave that house, she’s leaving and it’s immediate. It’s over in this life and the next. Nobody should be bold enough in this life to face you and tell you to take her back. Nobody. Not even your parents, pastor or angels from heaven. It’s like you don’t put your fear in people enough.